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We all need a Special Someone.


Its my birthday in a few days and I already received the most amazing gift ever from someone super special to me. One that if she had not been in my life, I would not have gotten to this stage, a friend that has been a backbone and has always supported me in all aspect and also in every step of the way, a friend that no matter how much we quarrel, we still always find a way back to each other, a friend that i can read like a book and never get surprised from an action she portrays, a friend that distance has never been a barrier to our strong and healthy relationship because it lies deep in our heart and mind and not our thought, a friend that I always feel super comfortable to talk to and never get tired, a friend that I love to listen to, because I always pick up a moral lesson and always learn a major lesson that will successfully take me a step further in life and in achieving whatever goal I set out to achieve, a friend that has a good and big heart and is always ready to help out anyone in need, a friend that I just can not let go of, even if the world is about to come to an end, a friend that the colour of her skin has never been a barrier in the relationship, neither has our background, culture and tradition.

I could go on and on, and not even in 7years will I have exhausted the words that describes this person and the relationship we built on a very solid foundation, with lots of barriers, obstacles and challenges swimming around us.

 Its must not be by the amount of  money in your pocket, or by the number of really cute and handsome guys or girls that come your way, or by how beautiful and super cute you are, that you make a decision on who your friends should be or the amount of friends you should have, but rather let it all come from the heart, let there be a spark that will hold the foundation of the relationship and also let there be lots of encouragement and support coming from both individual.

I might not be a good daughter to my parents, I might not be a good sister to my siblings, I might not be a good student to my teacher but one thing I know as a fact is that
      
I am a good friend to my really small group of friends, and this is one of the things I never take for granted.



Can you proudly say you have a friend to lean on when everything seems to be falling apart? Can you say you have someone that you can talk with for hours without ever getting tired? Would you want to have just one friend that you can trust without him/her snitching on you?

If so, all you need to do is to be yourself, do not try to prove yourself to anyone, because you are amazing just the way you are.


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  1. Interesting view. I am certain tho that down the line, your perceptive may change a little bit. Kudos

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    1. Thanks a lot dear. I really doubt it will though, because it has literally become a part of me.

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  2. Thanks a lot dear. I doubt it will though, it has become a part of me

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