FINDING YOUR INNER VOICE

Who is Anonymous? Living in a world of shackles, where do I belong?  Longing for a life so sweet, would that be long?  Surveying far and beyond, exaggerated expectations floating above mind, whispering and murmuring abundance of joy, love, wealth and satisfaction, all dead to reality.  Hope, Dear O Hope , who will grant thee life, give thee existence.  Who dare be consistent in believing in thee, turning the other cheeck to the hurricanes and thunderstorms, swimming in thorns, walking on bricks and stones, still, looking beyond towards that shining light illuminated  by  A Beautiful Star. A beautiful star ,  The beautiful star , sitting on a pile of dirt century over century.  The beautiful star ,  A beautiful star , igniting even after  years and years of constant struggle to be overshadowed,  to be buried, to be dead.  The hope  will be obtained, the star will be found… Anonymo...

please tell me more about Gaby. So, I made a new friend weeks ago, he is an amazing person with this cute smiles and innocent young man look. He believes in Temperaments, that was one of the questions he asked me when we met for the very first time, he asked me what I think my temperament is. I am not sure I am a person that believes much in things that that, I mean temperaments, zodiac signs etc., I don’t think we should define ourselves with those, I mean why should there be something that defines who we are? Why most there be names and meanings to almost everything in life? I prefer to be different from everyone around, I prefer to be unique and not be read and defined by anyone. So, my response to that question went like this, ‘uhhhmmm, I think I am a melancholy’, keep in mind, the only reason why I even know a thing about temperaments is because two of my close friends believes in it and never forget to sing it in my ears every time. But why exactly do I think I am a melanc...

Good Morning Everyone, hope you had an amazing and peaceful sleep? I did but the dream I had, came with a moral lesson.  Ok, so, of late I haven’t really been myself, I have been a bit sick and slept a lot, for the past three days I have been sleeping for the better part of the day. I am yet to take medications, but I will. Ok so, this morning I woke up as early as 6am, stayed on the bed for a while, and then went back to sleep. It is while sleeping this time that I had this dream. Now, I wonder why I didn’t have the dream while sleeping in the middle of the night until I woke up by 6am, why did I have the dream after I went back to sleep for the second time, then I figured, something really wanted me to, I really had to learn this moral lesson, it might be of a great importance in the coming occurrences, and I sure will keep that at the back of my mind. In my dream, I learnt that the one closest to you is the one that will hurt you the most, in this dream, a littl...

WOW!   Take a good look at me!!! I am killing it right? :D You are super shocked at my amazing dancing and singing skills, right? :O I AM THE BEST! Wait until you see a typical Nigerian dance, especially with those amazing Nigerian Songs, like songs sung by 2face and Psquare, they are legendary Nigerian artist and their songs are one of a kind. Whatever it is I was doing in that video is a pure disappointment to a Nigerian kind. The truth is, I suck when it comes to dancing. When I dance, it’s more of me having fun, clearing my head off all my worries and being happy. I never get the Nigerian dance steps right. I always try sooo hard, it always ends up like I am making a fool of myself lol. This is my reality. Either ways, I just go with the flow. My Goodness!! Those Nigerian dance steps though are soooooo tempting, we have Azonto, Etighi, Atlanta, Shakiti Bobo, Gwara Gwara, Shaku Shaku and the lastest is the Zanku dance step.   Do you know t...

Learning Through Everyday Struggles You've been busy, right? Getting choked up on your day-to-day Getting yourself involved with all the hustling and bustling, it hasn’t been easy, yeah?  Life hit you? Life hit you real good?   Unfortunately, same here, darling, same here.  Either way,  hope you've been learning  in the midst of all the struggles? Because the best part of all the hustling and bussling  the best part of all the struggles we go through everyday  the best part of the life experiences we have encountered is that WE LEARN In this life, we can never stop learning. Every knowledge gained whether the good, the bad or the ugly experiences is never a waste.  So, do not give up, rather this should be the push you need to even rise higher, take the knowledge that you currently have and turn it into the brightest star.  Me, the past few weeks I have been super busy with my school project, b...

A Birthday Reflection on Life, Growth, and the Fear of What’s Next It's my birthday TODAY!!! It's a new day for me TODAY I transcended TODAY Into the superior and better DAYS! As I reflect on Life, Growth, and the fear of what's next. I wonder if these thoughts really just end here.  But first, let's hold that thought. What I am filled with at this moment is joy, loads of happiness, and gratitude, because I got to see this day. A lot of lives were lost in the previous years, and some didn't and might not make it for their birthday this year, but I did, and I am super grateful to God for that. The gift of life is my only excitement. I am not so excited about adding another year because it's scary to think I'm getting older. This means more responsibilities, more expectations and more focus and determination on everything I set out to do. Ok, this was what I was writing on my birthday, which was on the 31st of January, but I was interrupted and never finishe...

Find that Determination When Life Gets Hard Find that determination when life gets hard, because no matter what comes your way, do not give up , you surely will make it. All these difficulties and struggles are just a phase, Let it not be so obvious on your face. Life is not a competition or a race, But instead, we need to take our steps, pace by pace. Do not let these troubles be your base, Find a friend to hold on to and embrace. Find that determination even when life gets hard and stick it up haters' faces. And at the end of it all, you will find your grace.

The Power of a True Friend: Why Everyone Needs One                         It's my birthday in a few days, and I have already received the most fantastic gift ever from someone super special to me. One that if she had not been in my life, I would not have gotten to this stage.  Here is why I believe in the power of true friendship and why everyone needs one.  This, my friend, is one who: Has been a backbone, always supporting me in all aspects and at every step of the way.  A true friend who, no matter how much we quarrel, we still always find a way back to each other.  A  true friend  whom I can read like a book and never be surprised by her actions.  A  true friend  that distance has never been a barrier to our strong and healthy relationship because it lies deep in our hearts and minds, not in our thoughts.  A  true friend  that I always feel super comfortable talki...

Overcoming Challenges: Staying Positive and Moving Forward Dear Fellow Nigerians, It is  tough to overcome these Challenges, stay positive and move forward, right?  You hustle, You Struggle, you think of what the future holds for you, but all you can do is have a positive mindset because this is all you've got, right? You try your best not to let the difficult times get the best of you. You try to hold on, to have a Positive Mindset, hoping the country will get better, hoping things get better at home and hoping for a kind of blessing to happen to you in whatever field you have planted yourself in, waiting for the time of harvest and when you will finally reap the fruit of your labour, right?  Do not give up. I believe in you; You will be just fine. I know you can overcome these challenges. Stay positive and move forward.  Things got quite challenging here at home, lots of issues arose, but all I can do is not give up and to keep fighting, try to overcome these chal...